As somebody who looks after an aging and disabed person I can vouch that looking after someone is a very difficult thing to do, especially if the person can not help themselves and relies on your almost completely.
Although placing them in a retirement home is not something we want to do it is sometimes the best option for not only you but them as they will get a far greater level of care that you might not be able to provide.
So a web site like the Gilbert Guide. They provide a good search database of retirement communities in the states of California, Pennsylvania and Texas. Although I am sure more states will be added in the near future.
Clicking on a link will pull up an extensive list of information about that particular retirement communities which includes information such as facilities, features and even things like when the place was built and what training the staff have.
A retirement community is something that should be run in a professional and sympathetic manner so that the residents can live out their lives in great comfort and security and Gilbert Guide offer the very best available.
I am running the 2018 London Marathon to raise money for Livability UK in memory of my dad. If you can I'd appreciate any donation you can spare. http://uk.virginmoneygiving.com/deansaliba